How to flirt well

By James Borg 700AM GMT fifteen March 2010

Good flirting is some-more art than scholarship Photo ALAMY

Good flirting is some-more art than science, and depends on a ethereal interplay in between you and the intent of your affection. Your physique sends out the signals a little deliberate, a little comatose to let the alternative chairman know that you are penetrating to a) get their attention, and to b) keep them interested.

Although there is no bound method, both sexes should recollect the "big three" see without delay at the chairman you"re flirting with; smile; and spin your physique towards them. This multiple is a great approach to vigilance your seductiveness and here are a couple of some-more tips and tricks to bear in mind whilst you are flirting.

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Is she flirting with you?

It"s customarily women who have the initial move. Men are mostly some-more demure to have hit with a lady who hasn"t shown that she"s receptive and lend towards not to be really great at celebration of the mass physique denunciation correctly. A arrangement of friendship might mostly be in error for passionate interest. Similarly, a lady needs a man to appreciate rightly the cues she is promulgation out even if it"s disastrous similar to "shove off".

What is she perplexing to say?

There is an form of pointed signals that women can send out. A steady passing smile, obscure or dipping of the head, wrist bearing (the underside of the wrist signals openness), smoothing of wardrobe and any enlarge in self-touching and preening.

Signal your interest

People women generally mostly wink some-more when they"re perplexing to woo a mate; unconsciously, your pupils might dilate. Women should keep their eyes far-reaching so that a man can see them. Men should regulate their physique denunciation to intensify their masculinity. Straighten up lift your go through in and chest out. Keep your gawk in the "flirting triangle" of the mouth and below. Your voice might of course go deeper.

Are you flirting as well much?

Trying as well tough to coquette can finish up carrying the conflicting of the preferred outcome nobody likes to hurt the disturb of the chase. Women run the risk of looming to be as well eager, that men will mistrust.

Men should cruise how most they"re you do to crop up manly. If you think you"re being as well obvious, you probably are.

Women additionally need to check if they"re shouting as well prolonged at someone"s jokes, throwing their head behind to display the neck, or disposition as well far towards the intent of their affection.

Then again, there is no extent to the intensity blockheadedness of men in this area if you don"t think he has got the message, keep going, even over the point where you think you are looming obvious.

• Adapted from "Body Language" by James Borg (Pearson Books), accessible from Books at �10.99 and �1.25 p&p. Call 0844 871 1515 or revisit books.telegraph.co.uk